Yesterday I spent all day making minestrone from scratch for a friend and getting everything in order so that I could visit that friend today and take it easy and good things and stuff.
I packed up the car this morning, didn’t forget a thing!, and made our way for the visit. As soon as I got out of my car in her driveway, I heard hissing coming from my back tire. A big ol’ nail or something big and metally was sticking out GOSH DARN IT.
I ran the food and the kids in and called and left a message for my hubby who was at a meeting nearby. Then called our tire place to see what we should do next. Thankfully they had a location nearby and I scooped up the kids, put their jackets and shoes back on, fished the DOGGY KIBBLE out of Ivy’s mouth, and was rushing back out Donya’s door to get the car over there before the tire went flat.
Hubby met me there and we decided we might as well go get lunch somewhere while we wait.

Gray struck up a conversation with a nice couple and they suggested we go to Sophia’s Pancake House down the street, and so we did.
It reminded me of the places we used to go after church when I was a kid. Of course they had lemon rice soup, too. And paper placemats with advertisements from local businesses. And little creamers for Gray to stack. Their food was awesome.

My car wasn’t ready by the time we got back. They hadn’t even started. And then they weren’t even able to fix it after all. So I left with the spare and have parts on order. And never did get to visit with my friend and her new baby.
At least I was able to drop off the soup and homemade okay fine break apart and bake sugar cookies (I at least decorated with Halloween sprinkles for extra credit.)
At least Ivy didn’t eat the dog food. (I think).
At least we had a little “just the four of us” lunch at the pancake house.
At least the tire place didn’t charge me for all the work they did or tried to do and for putting on the spare.
At least everyone was ok. Thank goodness I wasn’t zooming down 80/94 with that huge chunk of metal in my tire. It could have been much worse.
There is a pancake house in every crappy day. You just have to find it, and be thankful for it.
Stephanie is Mom to three boys & a baby girl in Valparaiso, IN and blogs daily at Adventures In Babywearing . Follow her on Twitter- she’s babysteph .






October 14th, 2009 at 4:38 pm
aww, steph! too bad you didn’t get to visit, but i’m sure the pancake house with the just the four of you was good for your soul, too. i’m sure i’ll be looking for one of those on my next crummy day!
October 14th, 2009 at 4:44 pm
“There is a pancake house in every crappy day. You just have to find it, and be thankful for it.”
I LOVE that quote!!! What a fabulous post… thanks for sharing.
October 14th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
Oh I followed you here and found this great post!!! Don’t we all have days like that!!! Last week our geyser burst and then then the electricity went out - with a week old baby!!! We celebrated with waffles and defrosted ice-cream from the freezer… I guess that was our pancake house!!! I am off to find the pancake house in today!!!
October 15th, 2009 at 7:17 am
Sounds like you found the silver lining in your day!
October 15th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
This is a wonderful way to look at things! Sorry you didn’t get to see Eden, but I’m sure you will soon enough.