Tornadoes and Fear

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Yesterday we had such fickle weather, one second it was cold and not a stitch of wind in the air, the next we were hearing tornado sirens, seeing dark clouds clawing and stretching towards the ground, and taking things seriously and retreating into the basement.

This scenario has happened many times before, but apparently my kids hadn’t remembered ever having to head to the basement to avoid potential twister run-ins.  They were visibly shaking, crying and over all just terrified that our house would blow away, all the neighbors’ pets would be stuck up in trees and that they’d have no underwear when we went back upstairs.

Thinking my oldest son was simply worried about our safety, and that was the reason for his meltdown, I calmly assured him that we were fine, we had each other, and God was protecting us.  He frantically disagreed, saying, "but what if the video games blow away???? ".

My husband and I tried not to giggle in that moment, and continued to work on chilling everyone out.  My oldest was shaken up the rest of the day though, obsessing over the what-if’s.  Asking question after question like, "where do you go when a tornado takes you away ?" and "how does a tornado kill you, exactly? ".

I felt grateful that I can normally bear the fears and burdens for my kids, reminding myself that their sensitive hearts need much protecting, and made a mental note to grab the video games next time.

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Arianne also writes at her personal blog To Think Is To Create

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2 Responses to “Tornadoes and Fear”

  • There Must Be Some Way Outta Here | To Think Is To Create Says:

    [...] tornado-ey storm that not only had my kids terrified in the basement asking us things like, “how does a tornado kill you?“, but that also blew our back yard fence off its posts.  The pup, she wants to roam free, so [...]

  • Kellyn Says:

    Boo asked me last year if the Tornado would take away her Troy pictures…nice. No don’t worry, Mommy and Daddy are fine, but get your Troy pictures. lol

    The questions that follow a storm always amaze me. “Why do they happen, where do they happen the most, what do we do? Is Grandma okay…”

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